Meet Muffy Barhydt
This Month's Spotlighted Independent Living Resident
Muffy Barhydt loves the outdoors. “I grew up in Maine, and spent my adult life in Connecticut,” said Muffy. “There’s nothing like the gorgeous green countryside of New England. When I decided to move to a senior living community, I knew I wanted a campus where I felt close to nature, and I wanted an apartment that faced the West, for beautiful sunsets. I was also hoping for lots of windows to be able to see expansive green lawns and lots of trees. Pomperaug Woods is the perfect community that has unspoiled natural beauty but also has walking trails so I can easily spend time outdoors. Beautiful surroundings make for a beautiful life.”
Muffy and her husband, Dirck, lived in Middlebury for 33 years, where they raised their four children. When they decided to downsize, they chose a condo in Watertown. “My husband and I were married for 40 years before his death,” said Muffy. “I continued to live in the condo by myself for 28 years. On my 90 th birthday, my daughter said to me, ‘So Mom, do you have any plans?’ It was just the nudge that I needed. I knew I didn’t want to continue living alone in the condo, or having aides care for me as I grew older. My son took me to tour four different senior living communities. I knew Pomperaug Woods was the place for me. There was absolutely no comparison. The community is beautiful. The food is very good. The people are friendly, and the care is exceptional. No other community even came close.”
The apartment Muffy chose had a special amenity that brings her joy. “I have a 1 bed/1 bath apartment on the first floor,” said Muffy. “My patio has an awning, and I am so appreciative of that. I can spend time outside three seasons of the year. It’s my own private retreat.”

While Muffy was confident Pomperaug Woods was the best choice for her, there were three things that surprised her about her new community. “Well, first, I was really impressed with all the activities here,” said Muffy. “I love being part of the book club, and I thoroughly enjoy playing Bridge with various groups. I also really look forward to the Current Events discussion group each week, and the lectures and concerts are always wonderful. I was also surprised that living here has led me to develop new interests. The Wellness Coordinator, Megan Boyd, has a superb exercise program, and I now go to Chair Exercise three times a week. It’s terrific! And the loveliest surprise of all was that I’ve made new friends here. Who can believe that at almost 92 years old I’d be making new friends. It makes all the difference to be so connected with other residents.”
Muffy’s four children, nine grandchildren, and six great grandsons are all ecstatic she chose Pomperaug Woods. “Moving to Pomperaug Woods is the gift I gave my children,” said Muffy. “And with the new friends I’ve made, it turned out to be a gift I gave myself. My kids never have to worry about me. They see how happy I am here.
They love to visit me and eat lunch in the Café. Chef Shannon’s soups are the best, and my son is crazy about her omelets. Time flies by for me, and the days pass happily. I’m so glad I chose Pomperaug Woods.
Welcome to the Pomperaug Woods family, Muffy. You are a wonderful addition!
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